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Thursday, May 17, 2012

Donuts of Joy


On Mother’s Day, I was reminded of the pure joy in the simple things in life.  Of course it wouldn’t take too many guesses as to who was doing the reminding; Spud, along his Pug cousins!

Knox and Azi are our son and daughter-in-laws darling Pugs, thus I refer to them as Spud’s cousins!  Much to Spud’s delight, they joined our family BBQ to celebrate Mother’s Day.  For a good part of the afternoon, Spud spent his time trying to get them to play.  He’d nudge, bark, annoy, - encourage them in any way he could think of, until finally it happened!  Those two little guys took off after my boy, chasing him in circles around and around the backyard.  Mind you Spud is three years younger and about fifty pounds heavier than Knox and Azi; not quite an even match, but that didn’t matter to any of them.  The Pugs were giving it their all, nipping at Spud’s heels as fast as their little legs could run! Spud, on the other hand, seemed aware of the disparity in size and age.  He certainly wasn’t running full bore and kept looking back to see if his cousins were able to keep up the pace!

My son captured the whole scene on video, which brings sheer joy every time I watch it.  Spud feels no need to ‘win’ the contest; he’s just leaping around the yard happy to be surrounded by his family.  The simple things! 

Likewise, I’m taken with the background laughter from all of us witnessing these ‘donuts of joy’.   It made me think about how seldom I laugh like that, how it comes so naturally to speak/write about the challenging moments of life while pure joy can seem so elusive.  But it doesn’t have to be that way.  Maybe I just need to more open to joy in the simple things and when they happen, have a great big old belly laugh of delight!





Knox and Azi took a long nap afterwards, while Spud went back to chasing bees and lizards!
 

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